Hello, I have lost my friends recently due to an argument and ever since my self esteem has just decreased, I feel lonely and there is noone around me who is noticing what is going on and how it is affecting me. I am larger than a lot of girls at my school and have weighed alot for my age thought my child hood. Recently I have been considering different weight loss methods, although I am aware of the effects of bulimia and that is a disorder, it seems like the last resort for me and my social life. I am currently trying to change my appearance completely, including cutting my hair off. I seriously don’t know what to do. I have tried purging but it just won’t happen my body just doesn’t seem to let me do it, do you have any advice on how to get your body used to throwing up?
Answer: Hey, you shouldn’t force yourself to purge! Don’t let your only method of self-regulation be self-destruction. Bulimia is really not the way to get your social life back on track, it alienates people even more trust me. Just let go of everything in the past, and start anew. Find people who will accept you for who you are, and until then, love yourself. Only by loving yourself can people love you too. Stay strong xo